Stuck?????

I have been in a relationship for a while now and everything is OK it has its flaws just like everything in this world but now I'm stuck between giving my relationship my all or backing out and playing the field..... This guy I messed around with has popped up out of no where now I know what you are thinking old love is never good but it's not old love it's simple he was a old friend with benefits nothing serious at all.. Just chill, smoke, duck in that order it's just now I'm trying to find myself and the excitement of myself is overwhelming I'm gonna explore my options without actually "exploring my options".... Wish me luck update coming soon